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How to give feedback that will actually stick

Feedback doesn’t have to feel like walking on eggshells

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Jan 21, 2025

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Giving feedback is one of the most powerful tools in your leadership toolbox—but it’s easy to get wrong. Too vague, and it’s not actionable. Too personal, and it damages trust.

That’s where the STAR framework comes in. No, not that STAR framework. (Yes, there’s another one you’re likely thinking of: Situation/Task/Action/Result - often used for interviewing.)

This STAR framework helps you deliver feedback that’s Specific, Timely, About the action/behavior (not the person), and Relevant using examples.

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